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Mar. 18th, 2007 | 10:37 pm
mood: pleasedpleased

A friend showed me this from a website which was discussing how to date a Scorpio (I didn't ask her why she was reading such a page). This was a comment left:

"When a Scorpio man loves you - It took months of emotional rollercoaster rides, all kinds of games and tests, but my Scorpio sweetie finally decided to give me his heart. In the process, I had to utilize all the patience, understanding, sensitivity, kindness and honesty that I had in me. It was worth every second. Note: He is not for every woman. He is a typical Scorpio, therefore, was quite secretive, mysterious, moody, hot and cold, quiet, sarcastic, and jealous. He could cut you with a few words. In the end, I don't know how I ever lived without him. A Scorpio man will not trust easily and quickly. It will take much time. He needs to be certain of many things before he can declare his feelings for you. When a Scorpio man is able to do that, then you have earned more than you ever thought possible. Try to understand him without critical judgment and over analyzing. He needs to be understood and accepted for exactly who he is and how he is. Here is where you must also be a strong individual with plenty of confidence. It is the only way to handle him.

Lots of affection and attention does wonders because he craves for a caring and loving soul to be there for him. Never pressure him to open up because with time and trust, he will do it on his own - little by little. His feelings and thoughts are deep and he is in control of how and when he reveals himself. It's good if you have your own friends, interests and hobbies because he needs his space and time alone as well. He wants a woman that has her own life too and doesn't sit around waiting for his call. He appreciates a woman that is reliable, honest (very important) straightforward, gets to the point, loyal, faithful, understanding, forgiving, tender (because he really is a sensitive soul) and smart.

If you're a woman that enjoys your femininity, you're self-confident, fun, humorous, sweet (but can get a bit feisty and stand up for yourself when necessary), and have a hot sex drive, then you are going to definitely win a Scorpio man's heart. What do you get in return? The best lover you ever had in your life. He is sugary sweet, gentle, protective, caring, exciting, adventurous, challenging and would do anything for you. If you're upset or unhappy about something, he'll do whatever it takes to make you feel better. His incredible strength and common sense will be a huge benefit to you in time of need.

He is an intelligent man and can help you solve whatever issue that burdens you. He can make you feel like a real woman and love it. Surrender to a Scorpio man and you will never want anyone else. If you have the stamina to match his, it will drive him over the edge! Scorpio man, like any other man is looking for the right lover to share his life with.He is very loyal once he decides to make someone his. He will give you more love than you ever wanted. He makes you feel special and the only one in his world. You can't beat all that, can you? Yes, if you give him reason to be jealous, the little green monster can come out, but if you know how to talk to him, you can reassure him of your love. Remember, his nature is sensitive.

Usually, people of this nature are very giving, kind and compassionate when they feel secure with you. Of course, other aspects in a person's charts do influence things a bit, but in general, I would have to say that they are worth the risk."


The only part I would correct is the assumption that the Scorpio male is heterosexual (or anyone else, for that matter). Otherwise - thank you, anonymous internet writer, for not saying we are evil bastards who should die slow, painful deaths because you didn't know what you were doing when you got involved with us in the first place. We are special creatures and can give you more than you could ever dream of if you treat us right.

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Kat

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from: katastrophic
date: Mar. 21st, 2007 05:05 am (UTC)
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If you're a woman that enjoys your femininity, you're self-confident, fun, humorous, sweet (but can get a bit feisty and stand up for yourself when necessary), and have a hot sex drive, then you are going to definitely win a Scorpio man's heart. What do you get in return? The best lover you ever had in your life. He is sugary sweet, gentle, protective, caring, exciting, adventurous, challenging and would do anything for you. If you're upset or unhappy about something, he'll do whatever it takes to make you feel better. His incredible strength and common sense will be a huge benefit to you in time of need.

She is SOOOO wrong. Do you agree with this? This is so not true! Most Scorpio men want someone who'll adore them, worship them as God, someone they can have complete power and control over. "Sugary Sweet"? Huh??? Uh yea, like cyanide has that bitter sweet smell before it KILLS you.

He is an intelligent man and can help you solve whatever issue that burdens you
Okay, I agree. Most Scorpio men are intelligent. They're usually razor-blade sharp and I LOVE THAT. They have that dry, sarcastic, black humor I LOVE.
But does he always use those powers for good?... hmmm.

for not saying we are evil bastards who should die slow, painful deaths because you didn't know what you were doing when you got involved with us in the first place.
Wow. Didn't know what we were doing? Trisssst?
Unfortunately I do know... and I can't stay away. You're like crack cocaine. I'll love my dear Scorpio friend, mood-swings and all, forever!

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profanelysacred

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from: profanelysacred
date: Mar. 30th, 2007 05:28 am (UTC)
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I realized I never replied to this. Sorry about that.

"She is SOOOO wrong. Do you agree with this? This is so not true! Most Scorpio men want someone who'll adore them, worship them as God, someone they can have complete power and control over. "Sugary Sweet"? Huh??? Uh yea, like cyanide has that bitter sweet smell before it KILLS you."

I don't know. I can't say I don't like to be "adored", even "worshiped", but I do reciprocate. Complete power and control? Eh. It's fun to think about but it's not something one should get caught up with. The reality of such desires is painful. I can be sugary sweet. *Oh, yes.* I just might be able to give you diabetes. But, you're right - it can turn to poison in the wrong hands. Every coin has two sides.

"Wow. Didn't know what we were doing? Trisssst?"

Well...some don't. Some think they can treat us carelessly. I am not good with people who lack that kind of conscientiousness.

"Unfortunately I do know... and I can't stay away. You're like crack cocaine. I'll love my dear Scorpio friend, mood-swings and all, forever!"

Ha - mood-swings and all! Well, thank you. I can be moody, yes, but I am so worth it. ;-}

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from: Fabio Andrade
date: Mar. 21st, 2016 11:43 pm (UTC)
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Hey there! I'm hoping that you can help me out a lil! I'm talking with this Scorpio guy for 3 months now, and I don't really know where this is going anymore!! He was a charming person in the beggining, but he's much more quuiiieeet now.

I mean, he normally talks a lil in the morning, other times not even that! Maybe, I'm just over reacting and I should give him more space. I try my best not to bother toooo much. We've only texted, so far. And sometimes I know that he's online and he's not opening my messages. I mean, I assume that he's not talking with someone else... But it's been three months.

Someone told me that the more a Scorpio ignores, the more they like you!! But I don't k n o w !

He did ask me out, two weeks ago. But my car had to break down the day before, so now I'm here waiting again.

I think he'll be worth the wait, but I don't know. Maybe I just need to give him that space that he needs, or should I speak my feelings to him?? I really don't know what to do. From what I read, I should just keep waiting.

I'm a cancer, and the problem is that I overthink a lot! I try my best to not show it, Should I try to keep myself more calm and chilled? I really don't think that I should be worrying as long as he makes a slight effort, like that lil talk in the morning.

For now, I'm thinking about waiting and talking a little less to him. Please help!

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